many people say when the gem stones or dzi u are wearing break, it is actually help you to withstand some mishap that could happen to you instead. so when the dzi break, it help you absorbed the bad things. of cos this may be a superstitious way of thinking, however if you think of it this way it will help you feel better.
& y @7 [$ `% d, d, valso, no things are permanent as taught by buddha. and we cant change the past, the only way is to let go. because every time you think of your lost, the lousy and bad feeling comes back. and everytime you think of it, the feeling is like you lost another dzi bead, as the feeling is very intense, and you actually lost more then what you have, if you keep repeating it.
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just let it go. focus on what you have instead
